We’ve been taught to fear the wrong choice. To weigh every option until we’re paralysed, to map out consequences three moves ahead like chess masters, and to wait for absolute certainty before we act. But here’s what that approach misses: there is no single “wrong” choice, only the choice you make and what you do with it. Every decision you make is the right one for that moment. Not because it guarantees a perfect outcome, but because it gets you moving. You either get what you hoped for, or...

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The reason why we choose chaos over stability